Mom, my goodness, happy Mother’s Day!
How long has it been since you’ve been gone? Not even a year has passed since you left us.
I found this photo deep in the trove of papers I recovered from your apartment before it was cleaned out.
Wow! That was 1995 and I’m pretty sure, based on my memories, that the image was captured in Siena, just off the Piazza del Campo. It was 1995 (a date recorded on the verso), probably January, while I was still on winter break from my Fulbright year at the Scuola Normale and Vatican.
Look at your broad smile! Look at how eager you seem to meet the day!
We sure had some good times in Italy during my years there. I’ll never forget that first dinner at the Osteria del Leone in Bagno Vignoni (in Siena province).
But then again, we also had exquisite brunch at Las Mañanitas relais in Cuernavaca, an evening repast in the same dining room as Henry Kissinger at Ducasse (not long after it opened), lunch across from Kofi Annan at the U.N. mess, supper served by a sommelier with a tongue piercing at Alinea… A Thousand Cranes in LA, Petrossian (back in the day) in NYC, sweetbreads followed by famous flan at La Puerta del Sol in Tijuana…. man, those were the days!
If you were here with us today, I know you would remember each and every one of those meals and occasions. I know I remember them, and a million more, so gladly.
You weren’t so fond of taking pictures. And when you were coerced into posing for one, your smile appeared only reluctantly.
But buried deep, under a pile of photos from your trip to Israel, I discovered a secret stash of photos from that Sienese sojourn, many of them with your beaming smile.
Oh, to share some of your favorite gravlax at Barney Greengrass on this first Mother’s Day without you! I can hear the servers carrying on about the freshly fired latkes now…














People often remark that my work must be so glamorous and fun. While there are some wonderful perks to being a wine educator and communicator, the schlepping is not exactly what most would call a “good” time.
Yesterday, there was an invitation to join the Marsiaj family for their Sunday repast in Turin (Michele Marsiaj, owner of the Amistà winery in Nizza Monferrato, is a client and he and his wife Francesca have also become dear friends of ours).
And of course, no proper Sunday lunch in Italy is complete without a glass of wine… or two.
If memory serves correctly, it all began with hamburgers in the 2010s.
That was followed by bacon and (scrambled) eggs.
It didn’t take long before club sandwiches started to appear everywhere as well.
Over on the Facebook, there was a lot of chatter after I posted
And let’s not forget the preponderance and ubiquity of “sushi” in Italy today! That cuisine is from Japan, of course, but nearly everywhere I see it here, it’s served in the American style that we grew up with. 
More than any others, two people have been the inspiration for my career: my dissertation advisor Luigi Ballerini and Darrell Corti.