Although I stayed offline this weekend (to spend much needed time with my family after a nearly two-week series of business trips), I did share Nicholas Kristof’s NY Times op/ed “Governing by Blackmail” on my Facebook. The post sparked a vibrant if not always civil discussion of the Affordable Care Act and the republicans’ current strategy to stymie it. Here’s the thread on my Facebook and the following is what I wrote in response.

Above: When our daughter Lila Jane was born ten weeks ago, no health care insurer in Texas (where we live) offered maternity care to small business owners like me who have to insure their families as private individuals. With the implementation of the Affordable Care Act, the health care insurers will be forced to offer maternity coverage. The ACA also protects my daughers’ health rights by forcing insurers to stop discriminating against women. One person’s “lazy” is another person’s “common sense.”

I’m glad to see and welcome discussion here (although it would be great if we could keep the tone civil, especially in the light of the fact that this is a place for family and friendship).

I shared the link to Kristof’s op/ed because I think it’s a cogent argument for why the shut down is counter productive.

And as much as it may be a bitter pill to swallow, I have to say that it’s simply wrong to say that President Obama is causing the shutdown. A small contingent of extremist Republicans are the ones who set the shutdown into motion. That’s a fact.

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It was so hard for me to be away from my girls over the last few weeks during the business trips that took me to California and Italy…

But this weekend, I logged off and spent our Saturday and Sunday just doing silly stuff and telling them how much I love them.

Georgia P is such a sweet girl and always has an “I love you” and a kiss for her mommy, daddy, and little sister Lila Jane (she already loves being a big sister!).

Georgia P, did I tell you that you are perfect? Perfect in every single way. I love you…

september 23, 2013
somewhere above the Atlantic ocean

my dearest daughters, you were both sleeping when I got up this morning and finished packing my bag for my business trip to Italy.

It was still dark and mommy’s eyes were still filled with sleep when I kissed her goodbye and Lila, you were sleeping on her chest.

Georgia, you were sleeping in your bed and nanna was asleep in your bedroom, too.

Yesterday, when I got back from my business trip and family visit in California (your grandma Judy’s 80th birthday party), we got to spend a few, precious, short hours together at home…

Mommy took some fun photos of both of you and I have them loaded on my phone so that I can look at them every time I feel the sharp pangs of missing you…

I said this to mommy the other day: leaving you at home for my trips makes me feel like the first times I had to leave her when she and I first fell in love and decided to devote our lives to each other and start a family… I’ll never forget the very first time we had to say goodbye… we held each other so tightly and the tears fell from my eyes… It was so hard to say goodbye then and it’s so hard to say goodbye now…

please know that I love you… I love you with all my heart and for eternity… and as much as I am not whole without you, the thought of when I’ll get back home to you and to mommy is what gives me strength in the sadness that comes with missing you so much…

please take good care of mommy while I’m gone… I’ll count the moments until I can get back to you…

love, your dad

Over the weekend, my family celebrated our mom’s 80th birthday with a big sit-down dinner party in La Jolla where I grew up.

That’s my mom, mamma Judy, circa 1940, with our cousin Sydney, who flew in for the occasion (as did many other cousins and old friends).

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Image via the Contemporary Jewish Museuem (San Francisco) Flickr.

L’shanah tovah! Happy new year, everyone!

May your year be filled with joy and good health.

Tracie P and I have so much to be thankful for this year.

My goodness… Every time I feel stressed about money, work, or any of the headaches of life, I look at beautiful Tracie P and the gorgeous little girls she’s given our family and my heart bursts with immeasurable joy.

And I ask myself, borrowing a line from a favorite Kris Kristofferson song,

Why me Lord?
what have I ever done
to deserve even one
of the pleasures I’ve known?
Tell me Lord
what did I ever do
that was worth loving you
or the kindness you’ve shown?

My life’s journey has been such a trip… Sometimes I don’t really know how I got here but, man, I have so much to be grateful for and I love my family so very much…

Happy new year, everyone. Thanks for all the support and warm wishes and thoughts for our family this year.

Bless you all.

I’ll see you after the holiday…

Mamma Judy came to Texas over the weekend to meet her new granddaughter Lila Jane (her seventh grandchild) and to spend time with Georgia P.

We spent the weekend taking turns holding Lila Jane, taking Georgia P to the park, and sharing Georgia P’s favorite things to eat (chopped beef, guacamole, grilled cheese and fries).

Georgia P looked great in her new dress! Thanks, again, grandma!

We’re so glad that you came to visit: grandmas just have that special touch when it comes to lulling newborns to sleep and Georgia P had so much fun playing with you!

We love you!

In other news…

Georgia P is starting to adjust to our new life and she gives her little sister a gentle kiss every night before going to bed.

Just when you thought your heart couldn’t grow any bigger, these beautiful little girls make it overflow with love…

Money is SO tight right now, Tracie P and I are both so sleep deprived we can barely keep our eyes open (it will be a while before Lila Jane sleeps through the night), I’m struggling to keep up with work…

But, man, I love being a dad.

Georgia P and I spent an hour on the playground this morning while mommy took Lila Jane for her two-week visit at the pediatrician (she passed with flying colors, btw).

I love all three of them so very, very much…

Georgia P is becoming more and more articulate, with a larger vocabulary, every day.

People let me tell you ’bout my best friend,
He’s a warm hearted person who’ll love me till the end.
People let me tell you bout my best friend,
He’s a one boy cuddly toy, my up, my down, my pride and joy.

People let me tell you ’bout him he’s so much fun
Whether we’re talkin’ man to man or whether we’re talking son to son.
Cause he’s my best friend.
Yes he’s my best friend.