Hag sameach! @ZanottoColFondo & gefilte fish for a happy Passover!

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The photo was actually taken by my uncle Manny Parzen, the famous statistician.

As you can see, brilliant minds think alike! ;)

Seriously, hag sameach (happy festival), yall!

We’re heading over to the Rosenbergs’, our Austin cousins from the Levy side of the family, for the seder tonight. :)

I can walk everywhere (that face)

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those eyes

When suddenly I stumbled on that face
That face, that face
That dangerous face
I mustn’t be unwise
Those lips, that nose, those eyes
Could lead to my demise
That face, that face
That marvelous face
I never should begin
Those cheeks, that neck, that chin
Will surely do me in

“That Face” from the musical The Producers

She is the love of our lives…

I can’t love Tracie P enough for giving her to us…

buona domenica… happy Sunday, yall… :)

War is over if you want it: my date with Ringo, 10 years later

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Above: Ringo Starr appeared at the Bottom Line in New York and the Tonight Show in Los Angeles the week the Iraq war began, ten years ago. My band opened for him in New York. Here’s a link to the NY Times article above, dated March 23, 2003 (the photo was taken at his LA show).

“Iraq War’s 10th Anniversary Is Barely Noted in Washington,” reported The New York Times this week.

On Wednesday, March 20, 2013, we marked ten years since the war began.

I remember that week in 2003 like it was yesterday.

On my way to sound check at the Bottom Line on West 4th St., I had to cross a protest parade on 5th Ave. A few days prior, my band’s manager had called to let me know that we would no longer be headlining the bill: Ringo Starr had replaced us and we’d be opening for him.

It was a surreal moment for me. At once, the world seemed to be falling apart (world war three was about to begin) as I was fulfilling a lifelong dream (to share a stage with a Beatle!).

As Ringo and his band rehearsed “Yellow Submarine” during sound check, nostalgia for the Summer of Love — when I was born and when youth culture embraced a utopic “imagine” vision of the future — was palpable in the room: outside you could hear the chants of the anti-war protesters as Ringo walked his band through tweaks to their set.

If only the Washington regime had given containment peace a chance…

Thanks for letting me share this memory with you and let’s hope and pray that Georgia P’s generation will know many decades brighter than the last…

Fruit flies, best way to get rid of them

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Remember the malathion-spraying helicopters in the opening sequence of Robert Altman’s 1993 love letter to Los Angeles, Short Cuts?

That movie and the 1989 medfly invasion in my southern California are such vivid memories of my early adulthood.

If you work in or around the wine industry, you know that fruit flies can be a chronic problem.

Ever since Tracie P quit her job in wine sales to be a full-time mother, we’ve had a lot less trouble with fruit flies (she used to come home every night with a wine bag full of open bottles she had “shown” that day).

But especially as we have begun to consume a larger quantity of organically grown fruits and vegetables, we still get the occasional fruit fly.

Mrs. B (my mother-in-law and the world’s number-one nanna) can’t remember where she read about the remedy but it’s worked out great for us (thanks, again, Mrs. B!): simply pour roughly a “finger” of red wine vinegar into a glass and then add 3-4 drops of dishing washing detergent.

The little critters are attracted to the vinegar but when they land on the surface of the liquid, they are unable to free themselves from the viscosity of the detergent.

As cruel as it sounds, you need to make sure that they die before you flush them down the drain (if they’re still squirming, they can reside in the drain and reappear later).

Buona domenica! Happy Sunday, yall!

rest in peace, pepaw, we’ll miss you

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Pepaw, a name that people use for grandfather in the south, was a foreign word to me until I met Tracie P nearly five years ago now.

When I first met pepaw and memaw at Thanksgiving 2008 (pepaw was 88 years old at the time), they must have been as nervous as I was, knowing that Tracie P and I were on a path that would most likely lead us to starting a family together (which we did).

I’ll never forget how memaw gave me a hug that day, even though we’d never met.

“We’re a hugging family, Jeremy,” she said. “Just give me a hug.”

As foreign as I must have seemed to pepaw, who grew up in East Texas and only ever left his home to fight serve in the navy army (on a personnel transport ship) in the second world war, he always treated me like one of the family. He always had a smile and a firm handshake when we saw each other.

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One is given and one is taken, the circle of life…

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By the time I got to Houston yesterday for my 11 a.m. meeting with Tony, Tracie P had already called to let me know that pepaw was beginning to fade.

When I arrived at the restaurant and we sat down at our usual table, Tony knew something was wrong.

“One is given and one is taken,” he said after I shared the news.

“Tracie’s grandfather will live on in your new baby. It’s the circle of life.”

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Ooo that (new car) smell (for precious cargo)

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There’s nothing like that “new car smell” (is that a wine descriptor?).

We bought a minivan! Tracie P employed her Neapolitan-honed negotiating skills and got us a great deal (NICE WORK, mommy!).

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As the Parzen family expands (in theaters July 2013!), we needed some extra room for our precious cargo.

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Isn’t Georgia P sweet? That’s her on her fourteen-month birthday (Feb. 12). It’s such a special time in our lives and she is our joy.

Buon weekend, yall!

somebody likes daddy’s scrambled eggs

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Georgia P turned fourteen months old today. She is such a sweet girl and such a big eater!

The Parmigiano Reggiano is what makes all the difference in the eggs.

We love her so much…